leaveepleasee asked:

This may sound dumb but what is a femme boy


Femme is a term I use that is pretty much short for feminine and often times in the gay community an overtly feminine or flamboyant man is called a fem. It is usually used in a negative manner, but I see it as a term of empowerment. It took me a long time to be comfortable with my femininity and some days I still struggle with it. So calling myself “Femme Boy” is me claiming my femininity and masculinity and transcending them both at the same time. A femme boy is a force of nature, a person that defines there own ideas about gender, sexuality, and beauty.  A trailblazer, trendsetter, and all around goddess. We are all femme boys if we want to be.